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Safety

Every great date starts with feeling secure. Keep these ideas in mind before meeting anyone new.

Stay On-Site, Stay in Control

We can help protect you from scams — but only if you keep messages within the platform.

Video Is a Hello, Not a Hall Pass

Deepfakes can be hyper-real. Verify identity before moving forward.

Don’t Send It, Don’t Regret It

Scammers use private images to blackmail victims. Stay private, stay safe.

Meet Where Help Is Nearby

Public locations with staff or other visitors — like cafés or museums — keep you safer.

Keep Someone You Trust Updated

Before and after your date, share your plans with a friend.

Take a Fully Charged Device

Having your phone ready ensures you can get help or directions anytime.

Use Independent Transport

Drive, walk, or take public transport — never accept a lift from your date.

Stay Sharp

Keep your intake low so you remain alert and in control of your choices.

Keep Your Distance Early On

Don’t go home with someone you’ve just met — give it time.

Stay Lighthearted

Go with the flow and enjoy the experience for what it is.